Stephanie
I'm not perfect.

I'm not even close to perfect.


But Jesus Christ's sacrifice on the cross wipes my sins as far as the east is from the west, and I stand righteous and clean before God.


I don't have worth without Christ, but in Him I am a beautiful, radiant, redeemed daughter of the King.


Sometimes I have to remind myself of these things, because it can be so easy to feel bogged down by all the problems and sin in my life. Discouragement and condemnation do not come from the Lord. "There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." (Romans 8:1)


Conviction comes from the Holy Spirit, though. If the Holy Spirit prompts me to repent of a certain sin, by all means, I should. But conviction and condemnation are two different things.


Conviction leads me to humbly repent before God and receive His mercy, grace, and forgiveness - then move on and ask the Holy Spirit's help for next time.


Condemnation leads me to despair because I just keep messing up, makes me feel like I am an awful person, makes me wonder if I'm truly saved, and leads me to think about how I can improve myself on my own. None of that is helpful.


People often think of the devil as someone who is standing there tempting us to go commit awful, worldly sins. He does do that when he can, of course. But for Christians, he is smarter. I may not be tempted to go rob a bank or shoplift, just because to me, that is so far off I wouldn't even feel tempted to do it. However, I might be tempted to be prideful, self-centered, or focus on self-improvement rather than asking the Holy Spirit for help. Actually, I am tempted to have these attitudes on a regular basis.


Do you see what I'm saying? The devil is smarter than we make him out to be. He has been studying human behavior since Adam's fall, people. He is not all-powerful, he is not all-knowing, and he stands powerless in the presence of our almighty King Jesus. But he's still smart, cunning, and knows how to get your goat if you're not careful. Mine too.


He knows that if he tells us "You didn't read your Bible as much as you should have this week" or "You are such an awful Christian; I don't even know how you're saved" or "Wow, they have just got it together and you don't" or "God is mad at you" or "You haven't changed at all since you got saved," that might mess us up more than tempting us to go do something ridiculous.


So we need to watch it. Memorize Romans 8:1, and when you start to feel condemnation, quote it. The devil wants you to feel defeated. He wants you to feel like you can never overcome certain sins in your life. He wants you to feel like you can never read as much of the Bible as you should, never pray enough, or never spend enough time doing spiritual things. He wants to make you feel defeated so you aren't effective! [Note: I would recommend reading a short book by C.S. Lewis called The Screwtape Letters to understand this more. It is an uncle demon writing to his nephew explaining strategies to bring humans down. It is extremely interesting and eye-opening.]


Remember - the evil one has no actual power over you. The only power he has is in deceiving you. When you believe his lies, then he has you in his grip. But greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world!


Where am I going with all of this? Well, lately I have been tempted in a sort of strange way. Let me try to explain this.


I have some godly friends, and I know some godly people. That's great, and is a source of great encouragment to me. However, the devil has been tempting me lately to look at them and how they have it all together and feel bad about myself. I have felt like I should dress better because they do, that I should talk differently or about different things than I do because they do (wow, that's quite a clause...), etc. I've been tempted to think I'm not good enough. That I'm not as good as they are, and therefore, I'm less valuable.


This is fruitless, pointless, and not from God! Hopefully y'all have experienced something like this before so you understand where I'm coming from. (Not that I want you to experience it, but you catch my drift.)


I have begun to learn Galatians 1:10 in a totally new light.


It says "Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? ... If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ."


Usually we quote this verse in the context of, I want to do what Jesus would do in this situation, and my non-Christian friends might laugh at me or intimidate me, but that's okay - I'm not trying to get the approval of them anyways. And it definitely fits there.


But I have started to learn it in the context of, I am not acting this way in this situation to impress my Christian friends, or the college I might want to go to, or y'all on blogger. I am acting this way because this is how my Lord would want me to act, and I do it for His approval alone.


So let's conclude.
1) Condemnation is not from God. Those who are saved by Christ Jesus are free from condemnation because He took it for us on the cross!
2) Conviction is a wonderful thing that leads to repentance and restoration. We should listen to the Holy Spirit for conviction about sin.
3) The devil is smart, and he wants to condemn you. KEEP ON THE LOOK OUT for this, and don't let him get away with it.
4) It is very possible to try to win the approval of Christian friends by acting a certain way, instead of acting a certain way to please the Father. We need to watch for this and make sure our motives are pure! Oh-my-lanta, I need to work on this.


Hope you are all having a great Monday! Leave a comment below if you have any thoughts to add, help to give, or have ever struggled with this.






Christine

Guilty as charged… but I’m working on it!

Yes, I do sometimes act differently around different people. 

Should I? No, of course not. However, it is all too easy to slip into being a different type of person around certain friends.

We want what is comfortable and easy. We want to be liked. Portraying a certain image can be very important to us — especially in high school.

As Christian girls, is it wrong to want to be happy and accepted?

Well, no. Not necessarily. Depends on how you go about trying to achieve that “happiness” and “acceptance.”

God wants us to pursue Him. When we start chasing after other things in our life, the downhill drag to disaster starts. Filling the void is impossible without Christ.

Don’t try to ignore it, everyone wants fulfillment — even those unbelievers who say they already are fulfilled. FYI – they are lying.

So here’s the skinny:

  • As fallen creatures, we have a void. 
  • Since we want to fill the void, we pursue happiness elsewhere (media, friends, activities, work, school, etc.)
  • Without God, we will never be able to attain a perfect level of contentment.

Don’t get me wrong, I believe God wants the best for us in all areas of our life. But here’s the thing: we need to not loose sight of our motives.

The only solution to fulfillment and security is being immersed in Christ, right? Totally! 

Why am I telling you all this?

Well, I feel like our culture (not excluding Christians. Ahem. Ahem.) is lusting after worldly pleasures more than we're seeking God. As Christians, we are becoming... complacent (cue foreboding music).

I’m not condemning anyone; I want to make it very clear to you all that I fall into this rut all to often too -- it’s easy and it’s tempting. 

Another reason God has laid this upon my heart is: Christians have become like the world.
WE, who are called to be salt in light, are becoming too much like our neighbors.
I’m not saying that this is all of us... And I'm not implying that we should zealously ditch everything we own and wear sackcloth for the rest of our lives – I think that that would send a different kind of message… (I’m not opposed to the minimalist-ness though.)

However, I am saying that people should be able to know. God should be our everything. 

Are you a chameleon sometimes too?

If we let the Holy Spirit glow from the inside out, anyone should be able to know for a fact that we are different. And that's a good thing!

I want to leave you with a challenge. Ready?

When you feel tempted to act [even just a little] differently around different people, don’t.

Just act like how you act around your family and God. Hold yourself to a higher standard — a gold standard. (US History is infecting me…)

Lets all give it a try for a whole day (you pick your day). After that day, we’ll get back on here, and give our testimonials via the Comment box. I think this could be a great way to learn and grow from each other. 

Finally sisters, be bold. If you have an amazing experience please share; if you have a less than amazing experience, we are all here to encourage and lift you up in Jesus’ name.

Seriously, we're going to be waiting for a response from you all...

Don't blend in like... him.  



Stephanie

I recently posted about whether or not Christians should be early morning risers to do their devotions. If you missed that post, check it out here.

There's another "laziness" picture that made me laugh. Today we'll continue looking at what the Bible has to say about rising in the morning.

3) We see godly people rising early in other parts of the Bible.

Isaiah 26:9 says “in the morning my spirit longs for you.”


The Proverbs 31 woman rises early in verse 15 – “She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens.”


This website provides several examples of godly people rising early in the Bible at the bottom of the page – from Abraham, to Issac, to Samuel, to David, to Mary… etc. And actually I got a lot of these verse references from there.


4) The Bible tells us that laziness is a very bad attribute to have.

Proverbs 6:9-11 says “How long will you lie there, O sluggard? When will you arise from your sleep? A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come upon you like a robber, and want like an armed man."


Romans 13:11-12 says “…the hour has come for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we first believed. The night is far gone; the day is at hand. So then let us cast off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light.” (I don’t think this is meaning literally waking up from bed, but the idea is getting up from bed signifies spiritual diligence.)


Proverbs 6:6 says “Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise!”


I love gotquestions.org … it is just awesome. Anyways I’m just going to quote them here: Proverbs is especially filled with wisdom concerning laziness and warnings to the lazy person. Proverbs tells us that a lazy person hates work: “The sluggard's craving will be the death of him, because his hands refuse to work” (21:25); he loves sleep: “As a door turns on its hinges, so a sluggard turns on his bed” (26:14); he gives excuses: “The sluggard says, ‘There is a lion in the road, a fierce lion roaming the streets’” (26:13); he wastes time and energy: “He who is slothful in his work is a brother to him who is a great waster” (18:9 KJV); he believes he is wise, but is a fool: “The sluggard is wiser in his own eyes than seven men who answer discreetly” (26:16).

Proverbs also tells us the end in store for the lazy: A lazy person becomes a servant (or debtor): “Diligent hands will rule, but laziness ends in slave labor” (12:24); his future is bleak: “A sluggard does not plow in season; so at harvest time he looks but finds nothing” (20:4); he may come to poverty: “The soul of the lazy man desires and has nothing; but the soul of the diligent shall be made rich” (13:4 KJV).


We get the idea. Let’s re-cap.


Laziness is bad, and rising early in the morning can be a good way to connect with the Lord, praise Him, meditate on His ways, etc. Dannah Gresh said that she thinks Christians should connect with the Lord and pray in the morning, but read their Bibles at whatever time is best for them in the day. For me, reading the Bible in the morning doesn’t go so well. I am unfocused, groggy, and just trying to get through it (which is never a good attitude to have while reading the Bible). The problem with that though is that it can be very easy to say “I’ll do it later because it’s not the best time for me to do it now” and then never do it. Consistency is key.


I have discovered that it works for me to wake up to my alarm and immediately switch on my Christian radio (SmileFM or Family Life Radio). Christian radio is not the same as reading the Bible or praying, but it does help me to at least get focused on the right things in the morning.


In all seriousness, I’m a freak when I first wake up. I have no sense at all for the first 15 minutes or so. So when I turn on the radio, I’m reminded of what Jesus did for me on the cross, how He is working in my life now, and how I should praise Him in everything I do. Then after I wake up a little, I’ll usually briefly pray. I’ve found praying in the shower works well too. :) Then a couple times a week I will read a chapter in the Bible. Psalms are good for me in the morning – they don’t take a lot of brain power to understand. ;) I could never jump into Revelation in the morning… I would get nothing out of it!


Then at night, I do the majority of my Bible reading. This is when I am focused, awake, and relaxed, and can actually comprehend what I’m reading.


This is just my routine that I’ve found works best for me. What is your routine? Maybe you’re an early riser and can just be Mrs. Proverbs 31 in the morning. Maybe you like to set apart time in the afternoon to read your Bible. Let me know in a comment below!


I hope you are having a marvelous Wednesday.

Stephanie

This picture makes me laugh. Laziness really is a problem in America, though. I know it is a problem in my life. And considering how lazy our culture is, when we even move to do anything we feel good about ourselves because we are so much less lazy than our couch potato friends.


I’m actually not going to be talking directly about laziness today, though.


I have been thinking about the morning lately. Christians tend to make it seem like everyone should read their Bible and pray in the morning. You know, morning devotions. But sometimes it seems to me that that's not practical for some people. I was a little doubtful that it was actually any better to do devotions in the morning than at any other time. Maybe you have had the same or similar thoughts.


Here are some quotes about the morning that made me laugh:


There was once a Chinese mandarin who had himself wakened three times every morning simply for the pleasure of being told it was not yet time to get up. -Argosy


I like that mandarin.


The sun has not caught me in bed in fifty years. -Thomas Jefferson

Well, this one is actually more along the lines of unsettling for me… I can tell you the sun has caught me in bed most of my life.


Early morning cheerfulness can be extremely obnoxious. -William Feather


That’s more like it, William. Remember, Proverbs 27:14 says “If a man loudly blesses his neighbor early in the morning, it will be taken as a curse.” :)


I don't think jogging is healthy, especially morning jogging. If morning joggers knew how tempting they looked to morning motorists, they would stay home and do sit-ups. -Rita Rudner


That quote is just awesome.


So today I thought I’d see what I could find in the Bible about it. Actually, today and in the next post, because I didn't want to overwhelm you with three pages today. :)


1) Jesus modeled waking up in the morning to spend time in prayer.


Mark 1:35 says “And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, [Jesus] went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed.”


A great while before day – whoa. Luke 21:38 and John 8:2 also talk about Jesus going early in the morning to talk at the temple.


2) The Psalms talk repeatedly of rising early to pray, seek the Lord, and sing to God. (Oh boy, my voice would not be so hot.)

Psalm 5:3 says “O LORD, in the morning you hear my voice; in the morning I prepare a sacrifice for you and watch.”


Psalm 59:16 says “But I will sing of your strength; I will sing aloud of your steadfast love in the morning.”


Psalm 63:1 says “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.” [That’s the ESV – other versions say “early I seek you” or something to that extent. It seems like earnestly seeking God and seeking Him in the morning are kind of interchangeable. Hmm.]


Psalm 88:13 says “But I, O LORD, cry to you; in the morning my prayer comes before you.”


Join me on Wednesday to look into this morning business further. When do you have devotions? Leave a comment below.

Christine
This post is going to be rather short, sweet, and to the point.


Thus far, we have been posting a series on The Heart of a Woman (or H.O.W. for short...).
As women, we are very complex beings (obviously -- any guy could to tell us that much).
Among other things, we desire, beauty, adventure, love, and wholeness.


Sisters,
You radiate the Kings' love. You are called to the adventure of a lifetime with God. You are loved by God (and me too). With God's help, you are (will be) whole. 


In Christ,
Christine 


Even though the topic of this series is well worn, I do hope you've taken something from these past couple of weeks.
My prayer has been that God would use a word to encourage, strengthen, or even challenge you.


I feel prompted by God to wrap-up this series by taking five minutes and just stopping everything. Turn off anything that is a distraction in your life. Just have a quiet moment with God. Ask Him to bring to your mind anything (that is in your heart) that could be holding you back from a deeper, more intimate relationship with Him.
Girls, we are all works in progress - never finished, but always cherished in the eyes of our Creator  (Isaiah 64:8).  Praise God! We are precious to Him.


Just so you know, for the next couple of posting days, we will be writing on random stuff - the stuff that we feel God brings to our hearts to share with you.  


Grace and peace to you, my dear sisters.



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