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Stephanie
Last night at my church we had a "royal night with the King." It was a fun event where girls all the way from 13-99 dressed up (some in full length gowns and others in sun dresses) and came together for some fun fellowship (complete with tiaras and all!). The church was decked out really nicely, and the food was all quaint, dainty, and delicious. (The crab cake things were YUMMY.) Cello and harp music flowed through the dining hall as we ate, laughed, and talked together (courtesy of Marissa and Andi Chester).


Here are some pictures just to give you an idea.

All dressed up and ready to go downstairs. :)



Props to whoever decorated; it was really beautiful. 



Here are Molly and I - notice the tiara. :)



We had such a fun table. 

All to say, it was a fun night.


But that is not the purpose of this post. The purpose is to share with you something that I realized last night after the culmination of this event (when an "ambassador of the King" - aka, our Pastor - came and talked to us about our identity in Christ). If we belong to Jesus Christ and are saved by His blood, we are royalty. We are actually princesses in God's Kingdom. We may laugh about it and think the tiaras are funny, but it is an actual reality if we belong to Jesus Christ.


Do you know who you are? (NOTE: I am not going to link all these verses. If you want to go to Bible Gateway you can type them in. These are courtesy of Brio magazine, which is sadly not being sent out anymore. Also, from here on out I will be talking directly to real believers in Jesus Christ.)


If you belong to Christ, you are...


-a personal witness of Christ's. (Acts 1:8)


-a branch of the true vine, a channel of His life. (John 15:1)


-seated with Christ in the heavenly realm. (Ephesians 2:6)


-able to approach God with freedom and confidence. (Ephesians 3:12)


-God's workmanship. (Ephesians 2:10)


-a minister of reconciliation for God. (2 Corinthians 5:18)


-God's co-worker. (1 Corinthians 3:9)


-a member of Christ's body. (1 Corinthians 12:27)


-Christ's friend. (John  15:15)


-justified. (Romans 5:1)


-adopted as God's child. (Ephesians 1:15)


-have direct access to God through the Holy Spirit. (Ephesians 2:18)


-not your own. You have been bought with a price. You belong to God. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)


-redeemed and forgiven of all your sins. (Colossians 1:14)


-united with the Lord, and are one in spirit with Him. (1 Corinthians 6:17)


-cannot be separated from the love of God. (Romans 8:35)


-free forever from condemnation. (Romans 8:1-2) (See a post on this here)


-free from any condemning charges against me. (Romans 8:31)


-confident that the good work that God has begun in you will be perfected. (Philippians 1:6)


-have not been given a spirit of fear but of power, love, and a sound mind. (2 Timothy 1:7)


-born of God, and the evil one cannot harm you. (1 John 5:18)


-hidden with Christ in God. (Colossians 3:3)


-can find grace and mercy in time of need. (Hebrews 4:16)


-God's child. (John 1:12)


Do you know what these statements mean?


You have royal blood. Not just of some lineage in some faraway country (Princess Diaries, anyone?). No, you have royal blood from THE KING OF KINGS, THE LORD OF LORDS, THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE, THE ALMIGHTY GOD, OUR SOVEREIGN KING, I AM, THE ONE WHO WAS, IS, AND IS TO COME, YAHWEH. Because we are saved IN CHRIST, we now receive everything He is to receive. This is not of us! Oh, no! It's ALL from Him. We get ALL of these privileges through Christ.


We are joint heirs with Christ.


Romans 8:17 says "Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory."


We are to share in Christ's glory and inheritance because we belong to Him. We are heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ. 


Now, I don't know about you, but that makes me want to fall down to my face. 


I am a princess of the King of Kings. Not because I deserve it. Not because I have some good attributes or have done some good things for God. Because I believe, and I belong to Christ.


  
Christine

Guilty as charged… but I’m working on it!

Yes, I do sometimes act differently around different people. 

Should I? No, of course not. However, it is all too easy to slip into being a different type of person around certain friends.

We want what is comfortable and easy. We want to be liked. Portraying a certain image can be very important to us — especially in high school.

As Christian girls, is it wrong to want to be happy and accepted?

Well, no. Not necessarily. Depends on how you go about trying to achieve that “happiness” and “acceptance.”

God wants us to pursue Him. When we start chasing after other things in our life, the downhill drag to disaster starts. Filling the void is impossible without Christ.

Don’t try to ignore it, everyone wants fulfillment — even those unbelievers who say they already are fulfilled. FYI – they are lying.

So here’s the skinny:

  • As fallen creatures, we have a void. 
  • Since we want to fill the void, we pursue happiness elsewhere (media, friends, activities, work, school, etc.)
  • Without God, we will never be able to attain a perfect level of contentment.

Don’t get me wrong, I believe God wants the best for us in all areas of our life. But here’s the thing: we need to not loose sight of our motives.

The only solution to fulfillment and security is being immersed in Christ, right? Totally! 

Why am I telling you all this?

Well, I feel like our culture (not excluding Christians. Ahem. Ahem.) is lusting after worldly pleasures more than we're seeking God. As Christians, we are becoming... complacent (cue foreboding music).

I’m not condemning anyone; I want to make it very clear to you all that I fall into this rut all to often too -- it’s easy and it’s tempting. 

Another reason God has laid this upon my heart is: Christians have become like the world.
WE, who are called to be salt in light, are becoming too much like our neighbors.
I’m not saying that this is all of us... And I'm not implying that we should zealously ditch everything we own and wear sackcloth for the rest of our lives – I think that that would send a different kind of message… (I’m not opposed to the minimalist-ness though.)

However, I am saying that people should be able to know. God should be our everything. 

Are you a chameleon sometimes too?

If we let the Holy Spirit glow from the inside out, anyone should be able to know for a fact that we are different. And that's a good thing!

I want to leave you with a challenge. Ready?

When you feel tempted to act [even just a little] differently around different people, don’t.

Just act like how you act around your family and God. Hold yourself to a higher standard — a gold standard. (US History is infecting me…)

Lets all give it a try for a whole day (you pick your day). After that day, we’ll get back on here, and give our testimonials via the Comment box. I think this could be a great way to learn and grow from each other. 

Finally sisters, be bold. If you have an amazing experience please share; if you have a less than amazing experience, we are all here to encourage and lift you up in Jesus’ name.

Seriously, we're going to be waiting for a response from you all...

Don't blend in like... him.  



Stephanie


Imagine in heaven God lovingly shows you His plan for your earthly life. You see footprints walking through each day. On many of the days, two sets of footprints appear. You inquire, “Father, are those my footprints every day, and is the second set of prints when You joined me?”


He answers, “No, My precious child. The consistent footprints are Mine.

The second set of footprints is when you joined Me.”


“Where were You going, Father?”


“To the destiny I planned for you, hoping you’d follow.”


“But, Father, where are my footprints all those times?”


“Sometimes you went back to look at old resentments and habits. Sometimes, you departed from My path and chose your own instead. Other times, your footprints can even be seen on another person’s path because you liked their plan better. At other times, you simply stopped because you would not let go of something you could not take with you.”


“But even if I didn’t walk with You every day, we ended up okay, didn’t we?”


He holds you close and smiles, “Yes, child, we ended up okay. But, you see, okay was never what I had in mind for you.”


“Father, what are those golden treasure boxes on certain days?”


“Blessings, My child, I had for you along the way. Those that are open are those you received. Those still closed were days you did not walk with Me.”


This story was from the Beth Moore: Breaking Free Bible study, and it really touched me.

Have you ever gotten right with God – accepting Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross for your sins, and receiving His forgiveness and salvation? If so, you have been justified – a legal transaction in which God looks at you just as if you’d never sinned, because Jesus took your punishment. Praise the Lord!

If that has happened in your life, God has given you a new heart. You used to a have a sin-stained, hardened, cold heart. God has replaced that heart with a heart of “flesh” – that is, one that can love, be loved, and be molded and shaped into the image of Jesus Christ!


This is a very important point about the heart. People often sin and then beat themselves up, saying, “Oh, I am just HORRIBLE. How could God love me? How could God have a plan for me? How could I even be saved?” And they don’t realize that when they sin, they are letting their old selves, and the sin principle living in them, live through them. Their true self is saved, and brand new, and wants to do right. However, their zombie-man, the sin principle living in their flesh, wants to get the best of them.

This provides a whole new outlook on sin. When I learned this, when I was tempted to sin, instead of thinking “ugh, I’m so horrible and disgusting, how could I want to do that?” I would think, “Huh. I don’t really want to do this. The sin principle in me wants to do this, but I – Stephanie, who is a saved child of God – do not want to do this.”


Obviously we need to take sin seriously, and try to overcome it with the help of the Holy Spirit. But we do not need to feel condemned. We have a new heart! We WANT, deep, deep inside, to do the right thing! We are now dead to sin, and alive unto Christ, because of what Jesus has done for us. We are no longer enslaved to sin. Romans 6: 11-14 says, “So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus. Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, to make you obey its passions. Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness. For sin will have NO DOMINION over you, since you are not under law but under grace.”


Verses 17-18 say, “But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient FROM THE HEART to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.”


Check out Romans 6-8 to understand this concept more fully. It really is a freeing, revolutionary concept!

Check out some verses about the new heart God has given us! Note: I got a lot of these verses from this website. Just want to give credit where it is due!


Ezekiel 36:26-27

I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you;
I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a
heart of flesh.
And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be
careful to keep my laws.


Ezekiel 11:19-20

I will give them an undivided heart and will put a new spirit in them;
I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh.
Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be
my people, and I will be their God.


The website says: “Jesus fulfilled these prophecies; He made it possible for the Father to
re-create the heart of man. Our Spirits are made new when we are born again
in Christ Jesus. He literally re-creates our innermost being for us. And our
old hearts which were hard towards God and un-moldable by His Word become
soft, fleshy hearts which He can easily touch and move. He is then able to
move us to follow His decrees, and to be faithful to His laws.”


Ephesians 2:4,10

Because of His great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us
alive with Christ
even when we were dead in our sins - it is by grace
that you have been saved... For we are God's workmanship, created
in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.


God has made us a new creation; given us a new heart.


2 Corinthians 5:17


If anyone is in Christ, he is a
new creation; the old has gone, the new has
come! All this is from God.


Romans 6:2-4

We died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? Or don't you know that
all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death?
We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that,
just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father,
we too may
live a new life.


The Holy Spirit is in our new heart, and He helps us live a life of obedience, out of love.


Romans 5:5

God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom He has
given us.


Hebrews 10:16

…I will put my laws in their hearts, and I will write them on their minds.


Now here’s the thing. We have free will. We chose to accept Jesus’ gift of salvation, and now we have the Holy Spirit in us and a desire to do good and serve God. God will not force you to serve Him. He wants you to say, “God, I love You, so I am going to serve You with my whole heart.”


We can’t do it on our own – but we need to take initiative. If we want to, we can totally let the sin nature in us take over, and live in the flesh. We can be lazy, not read the Bible, and simply sit there. But that is NOT how God desires us to live!


We have a new heart. We need to cooperate with God and grow in Him! Let’s read His Word, follow His Spirit, and move onto the life He has in mind for us!

Stephanie

Do you know what the tabernacle is? According to the Old Testament, the tabernacle was the portable dwelling place for God’s presence from the time of the Exodus (exit) from Egypt through the conquering of the land of Canaan (Israel). Find out more about the tabernacle here.

Bear with me, folks. I will attempt to show you how this relates to your heart. :) Basically, God gave Moses instructions – meticulous instructions – on how to build the temple, and the upkeep was very important. The rules involving entering the tabernacle – especially the innermost circle – were even more rigorous. Only the High Priest was allowed to go into the Holy of Holies, and only once a year – on The Day of Atonement. The presence of God is a big deal.

Under the new covenant that came with Jesus’ sacrifice, God’s presence is no longer in a physical tabernacle. We don’t have to travel to Israel and go to a certain plot of land to access God’s presence. Through Jesus Christ, we can confidently access the throne of grace – we don’t need a priest as a mediator. Also, we have the Holy Spirit, so God now lives in us. This has huge implications.

Once we become saved, our heart becomes the temple of God. God’s presence goes WITH US.

Wow.

Leslie Ludy, in her book Set Apart Femininity, presented an interesting parallel between our heart as a woman, and the tabernacle of God in the Old Testament. There are three sections to the tabernacle: the outer court, The Holy Place, and The Holy of Holies.

In today’s day and age, girls are told more and more to just be real, and to give themselves away more and more emotionally and physically. Females like Fergie who just give themselves away to be seen literally to the whole world are more popular and attractive than appropriate, moral, Christian girls. Now, more and more, girls treat guy friends just like girl friends, chatting with them late into the night, spilling their deepest secrets to them like it is no big deal.

In the movie Titanic (totally inappropriate by the way unless you have Clearplay), the main character Rose says, “A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets.”

I feel like in this day and age, this is becoming less and less true. The character of a woman is being warped by the culture more and more. We are becoming more “independent,” and more and more like men in many ways. We are taught to deny our emotions and just give ourselves away to whatever Bozo comes along.

Leslie’s basic message in this chapter is that a woman’s heart should be like the tabernacle of God. The outer court is where acquaintances and friends have access to. General things about ourselves.

Very close friends and family members we trust have access to the Holy Place. This is where our fears, insecurities, shortcomings, life details, and secrets lie. People that we intimately trust are in this inner circle. We shouldn’t just meet some guy on the street and spill our guts to him. We should not be an open book. We deserve more than that.

Next – the Holy of Holies. This is where our deepest, darkest, innermost secrets are. Basically God and your husband have access to this place. It is the “deep ocean of secrets” that Rose talks about. This is where deep wounds and hurts lie, along with our deepest dreams and hopes.

There are several examples in my own life and countless in the lives of other girls where girls get emotionally involved (even in a friendship! It doesn’t have to be a relationship) and basically tell guys way more than is appropriate for the level of friendship. Think of it this way: if your future children could see your interactions with your guy friends right now, would they be saying, “Mom, that’s not Dad! What are you doing?” or would they feel honored and cherished even now?

Leslie gives the story of one girl (we’ll call her Jessica) who met a nice Christian guy, and they started dating. Jessica spent lots of quality time with this guy, and she really began to trust him. She spilled everything to him – everything about her and her family, her hopes, her fears, her desires – the deep parts of who she was. In her mind, this was an emotionally-involved relationship in which they deeply cared for each other. In his mind, it was just a relationship with some girl. In a month or so, they broke up, and she could not believe all that she had told him. All that she could have saved for the special man one day who would actually care about her – her husband.

Our hearts should be sacred, and special. Only very close, trusted friends should be let into the Holy Place, and we should save the Holy of Holies for our husband, and obviously God. Clearly this is not a completely exhaustive, strict set of guidelines, and we don’t want to be secretive or cagey, but we do want to be cautious with what we tell guys. Girlfriends are just different than guy friends. They just are. Things should be kept appropriate, and we should try to honor our future husbands in our conversations even now! The general idea is to keep some things personal.

Your heart is special. Especially as a woman, you should have an air of mystery. You are not an open book for any random Joe Schmoe of the street to come read. In the American culture this is being undermined more and more, but that means we should fight for it more and more!

This kind of continues Christine’s last post on guarding our hearts. Let’s remember to keep some things personal, sacred, and special. You are precious to God, and He has something better for you than some guy who doesn’t really treasure what is very important to you. In the next post, Christine is going to begin a sort of mini-series on the heart of a woman, specifically. Should be great. :)

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